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Investigators are really good at spotting signs of cheating & can keep an eye on what a partner is up to all the time. This makes it a dependable way to confirm suspicions.
Even though they’ve seen a lot, like finding hidden underwear or receipts for expensive gifts, there’s one thing that always shows up when someone is cheating.
Jack Charman used to be a soldier and now uses his skills to look closely at what unfaithful partners do.
According to Charman, it’s important to listen to your gut feeling, something a lot of people in his job say too. He says, “I trust my gut a lot in this work, and it usually helps me find out what’s really going on.”
He explains that when people come to him for help, they often already feel like something is wrong and want proof. Charman talks about a common thing cheaters do called gaslighting. He describes it as a way the cheating partner makes the other person doubt what they see and think.
Gaslighting, as Private Detectives Birmingham explains, is when one person in a relationship controls and messes with the other person’s sense of reality and memories.
This can show up as putting the partner down and saying their worries are silly or making them feel jealous for no apparent reason.
For example If someone is going through this in their relationship, it’s very important to see the signs and realize when it’s happening.
If your partner always makes you doubt yourself, questions what you see and makes you feel like your worries are nothing, it might be a sign of a bad situation.
In these cases, Charman suggests trusting your feelings and thinking about leaving for your own well-being.
